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Can You Be Just Friends With Someone You Are Attracted To?

By: Sanya Bari

February 21, 2022

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Can You Be Just Friends With Someone You Are Attracted To?

I’m getting this question over and over again: Can people who are in love be friends?

Can you be friends with someone you are attracted to? Unfortunately, the answer is NO.

Here are quite a few reasons why. And I’m going to do different scenarios with you. This will help you get a clear idea of why.

Feel free to reach out with any questions.

Email or call to see if therapy, coaching, or one of my group courses is a possibility for you.

📧. Sanya@SanyaBari.com 📞. (973) 755-2306 ☎️ WhatsApp ‪+1 (973) 713‑7634‬

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